Well my personal opinion on the movement..
I really have zero issues with anyone doing what they want within their own 4 walls, it's their right. What I really do have a problem with is gay prides and that sort of stuff.
Now, the LGBTQ criers will say that the event is a testament, a cry for help, a battle or whatever.. I personally think it's pointless.
I simply don't see the point of the government, city, tax payers; having to pay shitloads and shitloads of money for an event that allows gay people to go out and act like idiots, make out, wear provocative clothes, wreck the town, and scream IM GAY AND PROUD
Good for you, I'm straight, pretty damn proud, yet I never get the urge to walk on the streets grabbing my girlfriends ass and generally making people uncomfortable. I personally am uncomfortable with a straight couple making out in public places, it's just not something I (or even worse, a child) should be made to see. And like I said, the worst part is, I even have to pay for it via taxes. Fuck that.
If banging dudes makes you happy, you go bang a dude in private. Don't make me pay for the condoms.
As for the TQ part.. Never really understood it. You're a woman, you decide you like women, and then decide you need to look like a man to like a woman. Basically, you just took a shit on the gay community that you so eagerly defend, I just don't understand. But perhaps you need to be in order to be able to understand.
In conclusion, go be happy. Just don't make others sad in doing so.